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Showing posts with label Nana. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Nana. Show all posts

Friday, December 10, 2010

Foto Story Friday #131-- Trip to Vegas

If you're a regular reader, you know that Nana returned to her heavenly home 2 days after Thanksgiving.  Nana lived most of her life in North Las Vegas, Nevada and so back to Vegas she went to be laid to rest next to her husband.  I greatly desired to accompany Troy and his parents to Vegas for the services, as I was unable to attend Papa's services a few years before.  Anyone with kids will agree that finding a sitter for your kids is stressful work and to find one willing to spend a week with your children is near impossible.  I fretted for a couple of days and talked it over with Troy about who we could ask to take on such a daunting task, finally we came up with the perfect person to ask.  Right after we settled on her, another friend called to say that she would be willing to help us out (after-all her husband did volunteer her).  I told her I thought I had another friend who could stay the night with the kids and I'd call her to work out the details after I chatted with the other friend.  I called the lady we had settled on at work and she said she would love to help us out and could stay with them for the week!  I had a third lady who stayed the first night with them and made sure they got to church on Sunday.  Yay!  I could go!  I set to the task of figuring out my life and the kids' lives for the next week..... I kid you not, I had a stress headache for 2 days and was pretty sure I couldn't ask so much of these ladies!  They assured me they were up for the challenge.
So bright and early Saturday the 4th of December, we set out for Vegas, a mere 1,276 mile trip - by car.
 One never knows what one will see driving down the freeway~  this train was hauling 3 planes.
 Off to the other side the road, we saw these guys discussing the problem of a stuck truck.
Getting closer to Idaho we saw less snow.  I loved the old barn up on the rolling hills and quick snapped a photo.
We only got as far as Pocatello the first day.  The worst roads we had were within 2 hours of home.  There were a couple of patchy ice spots in Idaho.  Troy was razzing his mom the whole way down, we will laugh for a while because of those "icy" spots in ID and UT! :)
 The next morning we got up had breakfast and headed out for the second leg of our journey.  We had to make a pit stop somewhere south of Salt Lake.  As we walked back to the car I saw how the flag hung with the mountains in the background and composed this shot.
 The farther south we went the nicer it became.  We met Troy's uncle for lunch in Beaver, UT.  He was headed home from his trucking run.

I wished we could have come in to Vegas in the dark, it is such a dramatic sight to come around the bend and see the lights of Vegas, but we hit town at about 4. 
There was a haze hanging over the valley :(  This is the view most people are expecting to see when in Vegas,
but if you've lived there, this is a better more appreciated one!  I do love the rugged mountains that surround Vegas.  There's a certain tug on me for the desert...... especially when I know how cold it is at home in Montana!
After a wonderful dinner with Aunt Claudia, Uncle Byron and Troy's parents, we settled in for the night at our gracious host's house.  (Thanks again for everything Aunt Claudia and Unc!)
The following morning after breakfast, showers and visiting, we went shopping with the fam and then set out to see if we could remember how to get around in this town!  So much has changed in 10 years!!
The first place we checked out was the home Troy grew up in.  Not quite how he remembered it...... the grass was always green and boy have those trees grown!  They were planted for our wedding reception 17 1/2 years ago!  It is kinda sad, the house is being foreclosed as the current owners haven't been paying the mortgage.
 Next we had to go check out our old place.  We bought this place in 1998 and watched it go from a desert lot into our home.  The tree in the front yard and the evergreen next to the garage we planted and they were tiny!  My, what 10 years will do for the trees!!
 A favorite place of ours is the temple.  You used to have a pretty awesome view from the temple grounds of the city, but the vegetation has grown so much that this is the best you get!  It is still kind of a neat view.
As we wandered around the grounds and I took photos, 4 missionaries were also there doing the same.  One of them asked if I would take a few photos of them all as transfers were coming up, of course I did.
 They have a nice nativity out front.  Helps me remember that it is December and that Christmas is right around the corner.  I had the hardest time with that when we resided in the desert, it didn't "feel" like Christmas because there wasn't snow nor super cold!
 Just loved the way the sun peaked around the temple spire and flared for me.
 A herald to the nations.
 We drove through the "good hood" and found these two cowboys on the corner!
 The jets were out flying which is normal, there is an Air Force base -Nellis.
On a whim we drove by an old buddy of Troy's and he happened to be home so we stopped by for a visit.  It was nice catching up with them.
After we left his house we headed to meet Troy's parents, cousins and his uncle for dinner at Macyos.  We had a nice dinner and visit.
I know this shot is like seeing double, but I liked it anyhow!  For a few reasons I kept it and am sharing it: 1) Vegas to most is about the downtown entertainment (gambling and so forth) and 2) when you've spent too much time in that environment, you are probably seeing double! :)
After dinner, we went home and visited a bit with Aunt C and Unc before retiring for the evening.
 The next morning, we met up with a friend from Indian Springs at McDonalds so her son could play.  It was nice to see them and to catch up with what's been happening.  Facebooking is nice, but there's nothing like an in your face visit!
Tuesday evening was the viewing.
 Nana with her children: Mary, Denny and Claudia.
 Nana's brother and sister
 The group attending the viewing.
Troy's cousins and his mom visit while viewing Nana.
It was a nice gathering and I met some of the extended family for the first time.  There were some who were apprehensive at first to go in and have a peek, but eventually all paid their respects.  Troy offered a nice family prayer and afterwards I covered her face with her veil and everyone stepped out for a little more visiting.
The following morning was the graveside service.
 Grandkids, great grandkids, nephews and such were the pall bearers.  I was asked to help but felt I would be better as a documenter!  Someone HAS to take the pictures!
 Family and friends gather to pay respects and say goodbye to a wonderful lady, sister, wife, mother, grandmother, great grandmother and friend.
 A member of Nana's N. Las Vegas ward read the eulogy and afterwards invited any to share their thoughts and stories of her with those gathered.
 There were some very nice heartfelt words shared to celebrate the life and love of our dear Nana.  Afterwards there was a luncheon at Aunt Claudia's.
 Family gathered for photos.  Good food was had as well as great company!
These three are silly!  Troy with cousins (Aunt Claudia's two daughters).  We had a wonderful time with all the family and friends who came.  Had a nice time just chatting with cousins and Aunt C and Unc.
After another good night's sleep we planned our last day in Vegas.  Tried to visit with as many friends and family as we could cram into the week!
 Went over and visited Troy's cousins's on his dad's side for a few hours.  Isn't their grand daughter darling?
 We had a lovely visit with them. After leaving their house, we headed to our old neighborhood to have dinner with our friends at their house.  We had to make a pit stop for orange julius ingredients. yum yum!  We have had a fantastic visit to the City of Sin and never stepped a foot on The Strip!
 Their daughter did her best with my camera and captured the moment for us.
These 2 are silly!  Snap in mid hug, followed by a "don't post that on Facebook"!  And I ended it with: "Actually I was thinking of using it on my blog."
Life is about the legacy you leave behind with those you love and who love you, so live life with love in your heart and on your face.  Serve others with a smile and do what's right, because it's right.




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Thursday, November 18, 2010

Foto Story Friday #128-- The helper

I know that I have talked about EmmaLece and Nana in the past, but I'm going to revisit the subject with a few new photos of the two.
EmmaLece has a special love for Nana.  Anytime we are over to Grandma and Grandpa's she always makes sure to go say "Hi" to her and have a little chat with her.  After that she runs off to play or watch tv or whatever else she can find to do.
 Once it is time to eat, she magically reappears and is ready to get Nana's bib on her and to help her to the table.
Last Sunday evening, as we were all getting up to the table, here came Em beating Grandma to Nana's chair and holding out her hands to help her up.  It is so sweet that we nearly have tears spring to our eyes.
Together, they make their way to the table.... the young and the old!  Each one thinking she is helping the other.  EmmaLece gets her settled onto her chair making sure she is in the right chair and properly clothed in her bib before she finds her own chair.
As they made their way to the table, Grandma and I were walking behind and We both saw what a precious photo this will be in future years.  I quickly got out the camera to record the moment.  One day EmmaLece will look back at these photos and the tears just may spring to her eyes as they did ours.
Never underestimate the power of youth!  or the wise council to be like a little child!




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Friday, May 14, 2010

Foto Story Friday #101--Em and Nana

Em loves her Nana.  Nana is suffering from dementia and often has no idea who people are.  It is sad and hard to watch someone you love go through this disease.  Several years ago, I cared for my grand Uncle who also suffered from dementia.  I attended a seminar with my mom on it hosted by Shelley Fabares who cared for her mother while she suffered with alzheimer's dementia. It was a very informative seminar and of course pretty cool to meet an actress.  Nana displays many of the signs and symptoms of this disease.  For those of us who remember her before, it is tough to see her this way. Tougher for her Daughter, Son-in-law and grandson who can remember how active and very busy with this craft or that one she always was.  The older 2 kids especially remember going to her house and playing while she excitedly told me about some new stamping set she had gotten or the Christmas ornaments she was working on for the grandkids and great grandkids.  When we lived in Vegas, I made it a point to stop by every week for a visit, because I felt it important for my kids to really know their great grandparents.  They would play and I would visit with Nana and Papa. But for the younger kids, this is the only Nana they know.  Scott is scared of her and will only, on occasion, give her a hug or talk to her. Em, on the other hand,  just loves her and often goes up and talks to her.  As was the case a few Sunday's back, when I looked over to see her patiently kneeling next to her turning the pages in a craft magazine.
 


The sad part is, because EmmaLece is the one who likes to sit and talk with her, she is the only one of the kids that Nana remembers and blames her for everything that she can't find or any noise that she hears.  Nana often says things like:  "that little girl...."  While it drives my mother-in-law batty when she blames Em for anything and everything, I just laugh and think how I hope Em will remember with fondness sitting with her and talking and enjoying her company.  She always runs over and says hi and usually gives her a hug before we leave.  She loves her Nana even if Nana blames her for her missing glasses!

Thursday, February 19, 2009

Foto Story Friday #37 Valentine's for Nana


Hosted by Cecily and MamaGeek


We almost always go to the library on Tuesdays for story time. After story time there are activities such as: crafty Tuesday, kindergarten readiness and shared meal. The tuesday before Valentine's was crafty Tuesday and the kids got to make Valentines. The twins thought they could give theirs to Nana. After we finished, we dropped by to deliver them. She was SO happy to have them come by and give her the Valentines!

Monday, December 22, 2008

52 Weeks of Blessings- week 51 -- peace and comfort

For me this blessing project has been an opportunity to look beyond the everyday blessings of food and shelter.  I have tried to dig a little deeper for the blessings I post.  Yes there have been the basics of a warm home when it is -20 without the wind chill, family and friends but also I have mentioned my testimony, youth programs that help me to teach my children to choose the right and be accountable for their choices and my Saviour.  

This week I would like to highlight Nana, Troy's grandmother.  
I have known her a mere 16 years and what a blessing it has been to have her be a part of my life. She is so talented.  These hands were tools of creation. Countless cards, {She made these when Shantel was born.}
ornaments,

{Nana made ornaments for each grandchild and great grandchild until this year.  These are just a very small sampling.}
cakes 
{see the bear off to the side?  She made two of them for our open house.}
crafts,
and paintings
they have made.  

When we all lived in Vegas, I made a point of going over to visit with her and Papa.  The kids enjoyed playing with the toys their dad played with as a kid and hanging out {as much as little kids and 'hang out'} with their great grandparents. She took me to her ward's SuperSaturday Craft days.   I never got the opportunity to really know my grandma Grace because she didn't drive. I feel it is very important to know your family and extended family.  I urge you to visit with your family members and get to know them.  I want my children to be able to say that they knew their family.  We have been so fortunate to have her near us again.  She is 81 and she chooses to no longer take her medications for various health issues, one of which is diabetes.  This has caused her body to weaken, her eye sight is starting to fail and she is often confused.  It is hard to watch someone you love go through this.  It is hard to watch her daughter and son-in-law deal with the stress of this.  It is hard to watch my own children learn these lessons and to watch them watch their Nana become old and frail.
How does this story mesh with the title of peace and comfort?  I feel peace and comfort in the knowledge that when she is ready to pass on, she will be with her husband, her parents, family and friends who have already traveled this path.  Yes, it is hard to see, but to have lived your life the best you knew how, to have loved and been loved, that is peace and comfort for you and your family.  Will she be missed when her time comes?  Yes!  But it is peace and comfort to have fought the good fight and won.  
Today she asked me when Christmas was.  After I told her, she just said, "Thursday. I was just wondering."  Will she be here for Christmas? New Years?  Easter?  4th of July?  Her next birthday?  Thanksgiving?  No one knows, but we hold to that peace and comfort given to us by our Saviour!